Putting my effort where my words are
Feb. 13th, 2016 06:11 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
capri0mniThe other day, I wrote something along the lines of: My favorite thing about Valentine's Day is the graphic design of the "valentines heart."
So today, I decided to act on that conviction, and made this:
Description: A primarily magenta "valentine heart" with highlights in yellow and green, featuring a stylized design of flowers and spirals that is symmetrical along the vertical axis.
So today, I decided to act on that conviction, and made this:
Description: A primarily magenta "valentine heart" with highlights in yellow and green, featuring a stylized design of flowers and spirals that is symmetrical along the vertical axis.
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Date: 2016-02-15 05:03 pm (UTC)"Happy SAD!"
Good luck with your new acronym overtaking the one that's been in common use for at least a decade though.
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Date: 2016-02-15 05:11 pm (UTC)I changed "debate" to "discussion" because I realized debate was the wrong word, and I clarified my misconception that I thought you were replying to my most recent entry, which discussed a philosophical paper presented at a 2009 conference on ethics and government.
(or I tried to... you are too pithy and fast typing, bb)
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Date: 2016-02-15 05:40 pm (UTC)Poetry: Sadness is not a monster, and doesn't need to be hidden away. Sadness can be an inner demon for some people but for other people sadness can be a teacher or an inspiration (imagine no melancholy poetry!) or a world of other characters.
Philosophy: If your grief is important enough to need sharing in public then why is other people's grief invalid and to be suppressed instead of expressed? /rhetorical question
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Date: 2016-02-15 07:04 pm (UTC)It's not. I said nothing at all about suppressing anything. Of course widows and widowers deserve and need their own grief support groups -- monogamous marriage is a unique and complex relationship, and rebuilding your sense of self and community can only benefit from sharing your feelings with others who've shared an experience of that complexity.
It's just frustrating when that's the only kind of deep, complex relationship to receive social sanction or support.
Sadness is not a monster, and doesn't need to be hidden away.
Of course not. But --
Another thing I said, in my too-slow edit, was that this may be an example of the difference between British and American sardonic humor.
-- S.A.D. may obviously be protest and resistance to you, while to me, it comes across as surrender to a finger-wagging authority.